Fugue States of America
A practical view of distraction, hypocrisy, sleepwalking through life, and the difficult joys of the opposite.
Doing two things at once is a way of life. While you’re reading this now, you’re probably juggling at least two other activities or forms of stimulus. You’re probably holding a few thoughts at bay, and thinking about two other things. I know I am.
It can be grating. I have two kids, and they will both talk to me, over each other, at the same time. Trying to listen and respond thoughtfully is almost impossible, and everyone gets frustrated.
Daily life often has this character. My thoughts are mismatched to what I’m trying to accomplish. My frustrations are mismatched to what’s in my hands. My obsessions are mismatched to what people are telling me.
All of this divided attention can make me tired, muddy in my thoughts and full of regret that I’m not devoting my whole care to any single thing. I can feel as though I’m short-changing everyone.
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